What is Fort Drum like?

Ok we are PCSing to Fort Drum, NY at the end of the month..I wanna know what its like there, besides cold and snowy I am from upstate NY anyways so I am used to that...but what is there to do on and off post and how are the people up there because military people in Louisiana are rude and very unwelcoming, so I need to be prepared if we are gonna run into this again...and I am sure the locals hate military bc outside of everypost they seem to dislike them alot...I am just looking for ideas and suggestions,. We love to travel, be outdoors, take road trips and do things. we have a 3 yr old son and a little girl on the way. so anything is helpful..thanks